fastidious
adjective

- extremely or excessively careful or detailed; extremely or excessively exacting, particular, or discerning.

- describing a person who insists on perfection or pays much attention to food, clothing, and cleanliness.

- excessively particular, demanding, or fussy about details, especially about tidiness and cleanliness.

Merriam-Webster, Wiktionary, Collins Dictionary

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WORD ORIGIN

The trail runs back to Latin fastidium — "aversion" or "disgust" — most likely a compression of fastus ("arrogance, haughtiness") and taedium ("irksomeness, weariness").

That second root, taedium, is also the source of "tedium" and "tedious". From there came the adjective fastidiosus ("disdainful, squeamish"), borrowed into Middle English.

The Oxford English Dictionary's earliest evidence is from around 1425, in the Book of the Foundation of St Bartholomew's. Early English use carried both senses — squeamish "over-nice" arrived around the 1610s. 



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THE PRICE OF PERFECTION

Many qualities have a good side and a bad side. Fastidiousness is one of them.

The same person can be described as careful, thorough, meticulous, fussy, demanding, or impossible. Often the difference depends less on the behaviour than on the result.

The colleague who checks everything three times may seem irritating—until a costly mistake is avoided. The friend who complains about poor service may appear difficult, until everyone else admits she was right. We tend to admire attention to detail when it produces something valuable. We dislike it when it slows things down.

Fastidiousness comes at a price,... people who notice every flaw rarely get much rest from it. They see the crooked picture frame, the typing error, the slightly wrong colour, the tiny imperfection nobody else spotted. Sometimes those details matter. Often they don't.

Steve Jobs obsessed over tiny design details, including parts of products customers would never see, and Tom Ford was famous for exacting standards in design, presentation, branding, and personal appearance.

The world needs fastidious people. They are the reason bridges stay standing, medicines are measured correctly, and books contain fewer embarrassing typos. The challenge is remembering that perfection is a moving target. A useful rule of thumb: if fixing a flaw creates more trouble than the flaw itself, it may be time to let it go.

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SYNONYMS

accurate, assiduous, choosy, demanding, difficult, discriminating, exacting, FASTIDIOUS, fault-finding, finicky, fussy, meticulous, nit-picky, particular, pedantic, perfectionistic, persnickety, picky, stickling, precise, punctilious, scrupulous, selective, stickling, stringent, thorough, ultra-careful, uptight, vigilant

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