effing
adjective / adverb

- a swear word used for emphasis or anger instead of a stronger one.

- used to emphasise something, especially anger or annoyance.

- a politer substitute for fucking, used for emphasis.

- a euphemism for fucking, especially as an intensive.

Oxford Advanced Learner’s Dictionary, Cambridge Dictionary, Collins COBUILD

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WORD ORIGIN

Recorded as an adjective in British English from the 1920s; the Oxford English Dictionary's earliest citation is 1929, in Robert Graves's war memoir Good-bye to All That. 

The mechanism is simple and clever: you take the taboo word, keep only its first letter, and pronounce the name of that letter — "eff." Add the suffix -ing and you have a curse stripped of its offending body but still wearing its coat. 

Eff off and effing and blinding followed in the 1940s. The American "the f-word" is a cousin of the same trick, arriving in the 1950s.

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MIND YOUR LANGUAGE

There is a peculiar human talent on display in the practice of effing: cursing without cursing. We reach the edge of a forbidden word, stop one letter in, and let the listener's own mind finish the job.

Linguists call this a minced oath, and English is full of them: gosh for God, heck for hell, darn for damn, jeez for Jesus. Each is an act of diplomacy where the speaker gets to vent a strong emotion. 

Strong swearwords sit in a different place in the brain from ordinary vocabulary — closer to raw emotion than to plain meaning. Stroke patients who lose fluent speech can sometimes still swear perfectly, the curses rising intact from some older, deeper part of the brain. 

In 2009, psychologist Richard Stephens at Keele University ran a fascinating experiment in which volunteers plunged a hand into icy water and to hold it there as long as they could. When they repeated a real swear word, they lasted far longer — about 160 seconds, against 100 for a neutral word. Swearing, it turned out, is a genuine painkiller. A later study went further and invented fake swear words like "twizpipe." The made-up words looked and sounded rude, but they didn't dull the pain. Only the real thing worked.

That’s the advantage of a euphemism like effing, it carries the exasperation of the real swear word  while avoiding the strong trigger.

Helga & Paul Smith

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SYNONYMS

accursed, blasted, blazing, bleeding, blessed, blinking, bloody, blooming, confounded, cursed, damn, damned, darned, dashed, EFFING, flaming, flipping, freaking, frigging, goddamn, ruddy, stinking

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“Used carefully, the word ‘EFFING’ can add emotion to an utterance,… but without the vulgarity.”

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