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a talking-to (or talking to)
noun phrase
- a severe talk with someone who has done something wrong
(The Cambridge Advanced Learner's Dictionary)
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WORD ORIGIN
To give someone a talking-to means to criticise them, and not with just a quick "don't ever do that again” lecture. A talking to (sometimes expressed as "a good talking to” for emphasis) is long and detailed and often tortuous.
It's what you got from your mother when she found a couple of empty beer bottles under your bed when cleaning up your room.
A talking to is what you got from the teacher when you didn't hand in your homework assignment and you tried to explain this mishap with the excuse "the dog ate it”.
It's best not to respond when getting a talking to, because it usually inspires the talker to talk louder, faster and longer. To use another old expression, "just shut up and take it”.
Here are some interesting alternatives:
- to read someone the riot act
- to give someone hell
- to dress someone down
- to give someone a piece of your mind
- to jump down someone's throat
- to rake someone over the coals
- to take someone to task
- to chew someone out
- to tell someone off
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SYNONYMS (single words)
admonish, bawl out, berate, castigate, chasten, chide, criticise, denounce, disparage, lecture, light into, nag, preach, ream, rebuke, recriminate, reprimand, reproach, reprobate, reprove, revile, scold, taunt, upbraid, vilify, vituperate
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ANTONYMS
compliment, praise
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SMUGGLE OWAD INTO A CONVERSATION TODAY
say something like:
"That's the third time this week that an angry customer called about an incorrect invoice. Someone should give someone in accounting a good talking-to!”